Rubin60onupA few weeks back, the New York Times had a great piece on "the greying of the Web." Older people are giving the lie to the grey-haired Luddite stereotype and taking the ‘Net with blogs and their own social networking sites where they connect, share stories, gripe, and cheer just like the younger folks do.

At Beacon, we’re happy to see the elder blogs giving some attention to 60 On Up: The Truth About Aging in America. Lillian Rubin takes a candid look at the problems and promise of longevity, and her “sharp, brazenly honest exposé” has struck a chord with many people out on the elder blogs and in the more traditional media venues.

Dogwalk Musings expressed her own worries about aging a couple of weeks ago, as part of a post reviewing 60 on Up:

65 is the end of middle age and the beginning of "new" old age. A far
cry from the criteria of not so many years ago when a man retiring at
65 might expect a mere three additional years! Now we’re looking at 90
and even 100 as the boomers move into these categories. That’s a lot of
life to live as our abilities to do so decrease. How many years can you
be satisfied just playing golf? And how many of those years will you
actually be able to do so?

Over at the Boomer Blog, Carol Orsborn looks at what the book has to say to baby boomers who don’t yet want to admit to the ravages of age:

The Beacon Press book is a morality tale for uppity boomers who think that just because we’re doing great at 50 and 60 means we’re going to soar to the finish line (or in cases of extreme denial, past it) with our botoxed foreheads unfurrowed.

Lillian Rubin is a sociologist and psychotherapist, and a senior researcher at the Institute for the Study of Social Change at the University of California, Berkeley, and the author of twelve books. She sold her first painting at the age of 82. While Dr. Rubin doesn’t have a blog (yet, although we’d be happy to see her start one!), you can listen to an excellent interview with her at the website of KQED’s Forum with Michael Krasny.

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4 responses to “The Aging of Anxiety”

  1. Steve Avatar
    Steve

    RE the blogosphere and the older-than-the-median-age American, is it worth noting that the average age of a Daily Kos reader circa summer 2006 was 45, with folks over 65 four times as likely as people-in-general to visit that liberal political site?

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  2. Dogwalk Musings Avatar

    Reality checks on the aging process come in mysterious ways and can be quite unexpected. I think my understanding of what Dr. Rubin has to say is because of a back ailment that has literally slowed me to a crawl. All of a sudden the prospect of all those additional years has a whole different meaning. And, at 66 I’m only newly old!

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  3. jenclair Avatar

    I recently read this book, and because I’ve had to deal with my mother’s illness and death and my father’s descent into the black hole of Alzheimer’s, the book spoke to me of what I’ve seen and heard. It is not an encouraging view of old age, but it is a realistic one. Rubin’s warning to those of us who approach old age (and to those of us whose parents are there) is to make this a political topic in order to institute some changes. This article < http://www.tiny.cc/axrDe >
    is the kind of program that could make a difference.

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  4. Penny Avatar
    Penny

    Thank you, Lillian, for your wonderful, honest book. You have spoken to millions of us who are “60 on up.” Mourning our lost youthful bodies and energy, trying to keep it all together, but appreciating the good times we still have.
    I hope you live as long as you WANT to.

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